Craving the kind of success I pretend to despise.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2026 source ↗
The question
Which trait in yourself do you like least?Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Craving the kind of success I pretend to despise.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2026 source ↗
Impatience and anger.
Standing up while eating.
Well, first of all I’d like to change the word “deplore” to “dislike.” I guess that I’m almost a hermit; I don’t enjoy going out that much, and so I tend to take my happiness from the joys of my home and my husband.
Impatience. Though sometimes it helps!
Taking an overnight train in Europe.
Using knowledge as a weapon.
My children dying before me.
Cycling around Martha’s Vineyard alone in the summer of 1976.
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