If you want to do something, one of the smartest things that you can do is go find someone that’s done it and to try to get them to show you how they did it, to show you where the potholes are. What are the right steps to get there? ... And not just in terms of where to go to school, but what are the things that are really tough that you have to overcome, and how did you overcome it.
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
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How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a favourite failure?
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Aside from a property, what is the most expensive thing you have bought?
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What inspires you to learn?
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How would you like to die?
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What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?
Craft & work
You must find a way to get in the way, you must find a way to get into trouble — good trouble, necessary trouble.
Emory University Quadrangle, Atlanta, Emory News Center, Emory University, 12 May 2014 source ↗
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Keith Black
Neurosurgeon; chair of neurosurgery at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center
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Academy of Achievement recorded interview, American Academy of Achievement, 4 May 2001
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Brian Chesky
Co-founder and chief executive of Airbnb
Getting rich slow isn't actually slower. It's slower in year one, but it might be faster in year seven.
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Chesky's remarks to Fortune in 2017, quoted by Business Insider, Business Insider (Markets Insider), August 2020
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Abby Wambach
United States international footballer, 2001–2015
I stayed on the path out of fear, not of being eaten by a wolf, but of being cut, being benched, losing my paycheck. If I could go back and tell my younger self one thing it would be this: "Abby, you were never Little Red Riding Hood; you were always the wolf."
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Barnard College commencement address, Radio City Music Hall, New York, Speakola, 16 May 2018
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Steve Jobs
Co-founder and chief executive of Apple; co-founder of NeXT; chief executive of Pixar
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
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Stanford University 114th Commencement, Stanford News (Stanford University), 12 June 2005
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View profile →When I was growing up on a farm in rural Alabama, I fell in love with raising chickens. They seem truly innocent. Whenever I'm around chickens, I feel happy.
I never thought that we would fail or that I would fail. I knew from time to time we may make some blunders. We may make some mistakes, but we were not going to fail.
Buying art…. But it makes me happy!
I wanted to know. I asked a lot of questions and she would say, "Read, read."…So she inspired me a great deal.
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Julian Bond, Explorations in Black Leadership interview, Explorations in Black Leadership, University of Virginia
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I don't want to die. I don't think I'm going to die…but we all have to die. Since I do, I hope I live on in the hearts and minds of people.
I would come home and ask my mother, my father, my grandparents, my great-grandparents, 'Why?'. And they would say, 'That's the way it is. Don't get in the way, don't get in trouble!'
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Emory University Quadrangle, Atlanta, Speakola (speech transcript archive), 12 May 2014
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