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J-Lo, a foreign correspondent and, at uni, I assumed that someone would tap me on the shoulder and ask me to be in MI6, but it never happened.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 August 2022 source ↗
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As a child, what career or life did you imagine for yourself?Originally asked
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