The question
Who deserves an apology from you, and for what?Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
A fixed Guardian Q&A prompt asked directly across respondents and years.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
My younger self. I told myself so often that I was not good enough, that I was not smart enough, that I was not interesting enough, that I was boring and ugly. I wasn’t kind to my body, and I did and said things to myself that I would never do or say to a friend.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 August 2022 source ↗
All the kids I didn’t reply to who’ve written lovely letters about my books.
My dear friend Katy. I’m sorry that I couldn’t stop you from making the most devastating decision. She committed suicide.
To Gorka Márquez, who was my Strictly partner, for not winning the glitterball in 2022.
Most of the people I dated between 23 and 33. It feels crazy to me that I ever thought that I could be anyone’s girlfriend before I figured out the things I’ve now figured out.
I don’t like it when people manipulate your words, which sometimes happens in the tabloids.
As someone who had a laugh.
When I was growing up, I thought quicksand was going to be a much bigger fear to contend with on a day‑to-day basis. It hasn’t proved to be a bother yet, but there’s still time.
This sounds so silly, but I cry with happiness all the time. I cry when my flowers open!
J-Lo, a foreign correspondent and, at uni, I assumed that someone would tap me on the shoulder and ask me to be in MI6, but it never happened.
I can’t say no. I am a people-pleaser, and it means that I burn myself out because I take on too much.
John Simpson, Richard Eyre, Sandi Toksvig, Ed Harris, Jake Shears, Gina McKee
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