All the kids I didn’t reply to who’ve written lovely letters about my books.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗
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All the kids I didn’t reply to who’ve written lovely letters about my books.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗
To my 17-year-old daughter Isabella, whom I described in an interview last year as "keen on maths".
My younger self. I told myself so often that I was not good enough, that I was not smart enough, that I was not interesting enough, that I was boring and ugly. I wasn’t kind to my body, and I did and said things to myself that I would never do or say to a friend.
I would like to say sorry to my ex-girlfriend. I was with her for 10 years. I wish I’d treated her with more respect and been kinder at the end.
Sorry is such an underrated word – I use it liberally.
Middle-class wanker.
Aggression. Anger. Rudeness. Intolerance. Lack of understanding. Pretty much your average day on X.
I’m a classic remoaner.
I can be horribly smug and conceited, and yet always in the back of my mind is the thought that things could go terribly wrong at any moment.
I’ve shat myself in public three times. It’s never quite as bad as you fear.
I used to give a fantastic talk about Frankenstein and Dracula, but I’ve never been able to finish either book.
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