I can be horribly smug and conceited, and yet always in the back of my mind is the thought that things could go terribly wrong at any moment.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗
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Which trait in yourself do you like least?Originally asked
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I can be horribly smug and conceited, and yet always in the back of my mind is the thought that things could go terribly wrong at any moment.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗
My difficulty to forgive.
My Sicilian impulsiveness.
I can go for weeks without opening the mail. I can look at a letter that has just dropped through the letterbox, wonder what it is and then just shred it.
Sometimes I follow my instincts more than my reason.
All the kids I didn’t reply to who’ve written lovely letters about my books.
I’ve shat myself in public three times. It’s never quite as bad as you fear.
Three mature palm trees. We restored a property in Italy that had been derelict and I needed to make it look established as quickly as I could.
Middle-class wanker.
Aggression. Anger. Rudeness. Intolerance. Lack of understanding. Pretty much your average day on X.
I’m a classic remoaner.
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