How close have you come to death?

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Recorded Gloria Steinem said elsewhere, not written here
I’ve had cancer three times, but never felt close to death except when I walked between parked cars on my street and a car sped past my nose.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 March 2017 source ↗

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Jo Nesbø Norwegian writer and musician
Rock climbing in Oslo. During abseiling, I hadn’t tied a knot at the end of the rope and almost slid out. I saw the end of the rope at the last second, so I stopped abseiling.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 April 2026 source ↗
Maggie O'Farrell Irish-British novelist
How long have you got? I have written a memoir and the subtitle is Seventeen Brushes with Death.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 March 2023 source ↗
A piece of scenery fell on my head during Richard II at the Globe theatre in 2019. I was very badly hurt.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 October 2025 source ↗

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Question If you could edit your past, what would you change? Failure & regret
Since hostile people still call me a former Playboy Bunny, even at 82, I probably shouldn’t have done that in my youth, even to write an exposé. And since a couple of times they’ve also referred to me as a former CIA agent, because I went to two Soviet-era communist youth festivals, I probably shouldn’t have done that, either. Yet if I hadn’t done both, I might have judged other people by such empty symbols, too.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 March 2017 source ↗

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