What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it?
Recorded David Hare said elsewhere, not written here
It was a sustained nervous breakdown really, over a long period.

Jasper Rees, Q&A, The Arts Desk, 10 October 2009 source ↗

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Leymah Gbowee Peace activist; Nobel Peace Prize laureate, 2011
I think the turning point was when my daughter turned 17, and I drank 17 glasses of wine straight. ... But that was my escape from everything I had gone through from the movement — because even as we did the movement, there were traumas that were piling up.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, 13 September 2018 source ↗
Oliver Sacks Neurologist and writer
And I spent four years at a boarding school in the country, probably a rather abusive boarding school, and seeing very little of my parents, and that was a very bad time for me. A bad and almost a mad time. ... I think that some sort of trust, and ability for closeness, may have been compromised. And I think I’ve perhaps, to some extent, sort of kept a distance since that time, although this is not a distance I feel with my patients or my students.
Recorded Academy of Achievement recorded interview, American Academy of Achievement, 17 June 2000 source ↗
Roger Ebert Film critic
Thank God I found sobriety. I could sustain myself with my work, my reading, the movies, my friends. And walking, walking, walking. Of all the purposes of education, I think the most useful is this: It prepares you to keep yourself entertained. It gives you a better chance of an interesting job. ... I can't remember the last time I felt bored. I can't eat, drink or talk, and yet I have so many other resources to keep myself entertained. I think I must be a case study.
Recorded Roger Ebert's Journal, rogerebert.com, 6 November 2010 source ↗
Tony Judt Historian and essayist
But the satisfactions of compensation are notoriously fleeting. There is no saving grace in being confined to an iron suit, cold and unforgiving. The pleasures of mental agility are much overstated, inevitably—as it now appears to me—by those not exclusively dependent upon them. Much the same can be said of well-meaning encouragements to find nonphysical compensations for physical inadequacy. That way lies futility. Loss is loss, and nothing is gained by calling it by a nicer name. My nights are intriguing; but I could do without them.
Recorded The New York Review of Books, 14 January 2010 source ↗

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