Change of mind

When was the last time you changed your mind about something?

28 answers answered between 1996 and 2026 one of 5 in 9 Questions

Originally asked

Vox, to writers and thinkers, 9 Questions, 2017

The exact question was part of every retrieved Vox 9 Questions installment.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Add your answer

On the record

Public figures who have answered a question like this elsewhere. Quoted from the source shown, not written for FLAPSS.

Diana Athill Editor and memoirist
I can’t remember when I read, or was told, that he considered it a good thing to spend a short time every day thinking about death, thus getting used to its inevitability and coming to understand that something inevitable is natural and can’t be too bad, but it was in my early teens, and it struck me as a sensible idea. Of course I didn’t set out to think about death in a regular way every day, but I did think about it quite often, and sure enough, it worked. Why coming to see death’s naturalness should have caused belief in an afterlife to melt away, I am unsure, but it did.
Recorded The Long Read essay, The Guardian, 23 September 2014 source ↗
I always thought I would be a terrible driver because I’m sort of a wafty person, but it turns out I am very good at staying in between the lines. I passed my test last year.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 March 2024 source ↗
July 2018, when I married my third husband, Roger, after two years of proclaiming that marriage at 76 was stupid.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 December 2024 source ↗
Oh, most days. I can watch a political programme and think, “That sounds a really good point.” Then someone will argue the opposite and I’ll think, “Yeah, he’s got a point as well.” I am constantly sitting on a fence.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 April 2025 source ↗
I woke up this morning thinking maybe I don’t want to be an actor any more, then I had breakfast and I thought: actually, no, I really like being an actor.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 September 2025 source ↗
My mind is changing about being a mum. I got a dog and the way I feel about it is a lot, and I realise maybe I would want to be a mum.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗
There’s a house near me that I adore and it came up for sale, and I got to the point of nearly buying it and then pulled out because I’m trying to be sensible.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗
I vowed never to marry, but we got married as soon as we could after lockdown. I used to think it was patriarchal but when same-sex marriage became legal, I thought: OK, great, this institution has finally changed.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 May 2026 source ↗

0 answers from members

Nobody has answered this one yet.