Identity & self

What did you want to be when you were growing up?

232 answers answered between 1930 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

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Emeli Sandé British singer
I always wanted to be a singer, but I also wanted to be a doctor. I almost got there: I did four years and got my neuroscience BSc.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 January 2017 source ↗
Nick Grimshaw English television and radio presenter
Genuinely, the host of Radio 1’s Breakfast Show.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 10 June 2017 source ↗
Dan Stevens English actor
Jobs that I saw on television, until I realised they were all played by actors – then I wanted to be an actor.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 November 2017 source ↗
Hayley Atwell British American actress
An adult, as quickly as possible. I wasn’t built for the psychological warfare of the playground.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 December 2018 source ↗
Nish Kumar British stand-up comedian and presenter
Something in comedy. It was either this or Jimi Hendrix.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 February 2019 source ↗
Joanne Froggatt English actress
An actor – that’s all I’ve ever wanted to do. I went to stage school when I was 13.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 February 2019 source ↗
Jessica Brown Findlay English actress
A ballet dancer. I danced from age two to 19. Giving up was not a choice; I had complications in an ankle operation.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 March 2021 source ↗
Riz Ahmed British actor and rapper
I wanted to perform in some way, but I didn’t think it was viable. Teachers told me I should be a barrister, because I was always arguing with them.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 10 April 2021 source ↗
Joss Stone English singer, songwriter, and actress
A veterinarian, but I decided against it because it required too many years of schooling; I wasn’t great at school.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 April 2021 source ↗
Marie Kondo Japanese organizing consultant, author, and television show host
Housewife and mother of three, which I am now.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 8 January 2022 source ↗
Vick Hope British television and radio presenter
J-Lo, a foreign correspondent and, at uni, I assumed that someone would tap me on the shoulder and ask me to be in MI6, but it never happened.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 August 2022 source ↗

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