Failure & regret

If you could edit your past, what would you change?

203 answers answered between 1995 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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Mike Skinner English rapper
I'd have not sung along with Yellow Submarine in that infant school hall.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 January 2009 source ↗
Julia Stiles American actress
I’d have been less precocious as a child (you grow up fast in New York). I’d have prolonged the naivety.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 July 2015 source ↗
Reggie Yates British actor and media personality
How little confidence I had in my late teens and early 20s.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 November 2017 source ↗
Jennifer Hudson American singer and actress
I wouldn’t change a thing. Every experience is a lesson learned.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 January 2018 source ↗
Vicky McClure English actress
I wasted a year doing nothing at 18. I got with a guy and just wanted to hang out. It didn’t do me any favours.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 March 2018 source ↗
Patrisse Khan-Cullors American artist and activist
My mentally ill brother going to juvenile hall when he was 14. It led to his incarceration from 14 to almost 40.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 March 2018 source ↗
Jodie Whittaker English actress
Getting my tongue pierced aged 15, when I had train-track braces on both my top and bottom teeth. Huge error.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 September 2018 source ↗
Joanne Froggatt English actress
I’d change my mindset and not be so hard on myself, and impart the knowledge that other people’s intentions aren’t always as well-meaning as my own.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 February 2019 source ↗
Greg James British author, broadcaster, comedian, and presenter
If I had known what a stylist was when I joined Radio 1, I would have enlisted the help of one.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 March 2019 source ↗
Steph McGovern Broadcaster
On BBC Breakfast, I accidentally said “fuck” on air. My microphone had been turned on when I wasn’t in the room. It went out across the telly and they had to apologise.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 November 2020 source ↗
Emma Barnett British broadcaster and journalist
Not being able to have a baby for two and a half years. Lots of people say it made me a better person; I think it made me worse. You go to a very dark place with your friends because they are having kids, and you want to be happy for them but you’re not.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 February 2021 source ↗

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