Before I realised my parents, sister and I were all mortal.
When were you happiest?
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When Peta picked me to be on their first Times Square anti-fur billboard.
I am relieved to say that I find it hard to answer such a question, because if I could it would suggest that my life has become dreary and empty.
The birth of my first child, July 4 2002.
Now. When I see my two children enjoying each other's company.
About half an hour ago, watching through the window as my dad and two-year-old daughter walked to the paper shop together.
In a pool this summer with the children.
Sending off the final draft of my latest novel.
The two times I've been pregnant. With Jessie, I lay on a sofa and watched The West Wing for nine months.
Christmas Eve: shops closed, family all together!
An eight-hour walk along the north Cornwall coast with my eldest children - aged eight and 10. Whoever has eight hours of solid conversation with their children? I loved every minute.
About 15 minutes ago: I'm on medication and it's starting to wear off.
Can't quantify – I am often happy.
A couple of summers ago, walking through a forest illuminated by fireflies, with my man and our dogs.
I would like to say right now, but probably childhood – though even that may be wrong, so I'll say six weeks ago walking in the Lakes.
Running down a hill in midsummer sunshine aged eight, singing ELO's Mr Blue Sky.
Most recently, when I was tobogganing in Italy.
When my bowels move freely and without complications.
Now. Although I am on tour and I will be deliriously happy when that finishes, because I'll be back home.
This may sound nauseating, but I am a very happy person. I love my work, I love my life and I'm told by those who know/love me that it's a bit like living with Tigger. Bloody annoying, I should think.
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