I repeat stories (like my mum used to).
Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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Not always standing up for myself enough.
The fact that sometimes my mouth is a little too big and a little too open and sounds too much like a sailor.
How long do we have?
My quick temper and the chaos that ensues in the hurricane that follows.
I love to break rules.
I’m disorganized.
I worry that if I don’t challenge myself professionally I’ll lie on the sofa and watch old episodes of Law & Order all day.
I had to ask people about this, because I couldn’t think of anything, and the consensus seems to be: a general lack of self-awareness.
Impatience; the inability to savor the moment.
My cold indifference towards discarded friends.
Lack of confidence.
Being a bit mean now and again, too impetuous, snappy, bit of a temper.
I’ve learned to give myself a break. Everyone should.
Impatience. My dad said I was born in a hurry.
I would deplore feeling deplorable about myself.
I don’t think anyone should deplore anything about themselves. You can always improve things, but by deploring you’re putting yourself on a losing streak.
I talk over people all the time.
My inability to say no.
Deplore is a heavy word. I don’t deplore it but I constantly feel the pull of my old Midwestern ways of eating. Boy, can I put some pancakes away.
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