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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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Acting like the good little girl.
Holding a grudge.
Sometimes I wrote off my own failings as just another example of the world trying to keep a black man down. I had a tendency sometimes to make excuses for me not doing the right thing.
Punctuality (outside of work, of course).
My distractibility, diminishing memory, and capacity for sustained concentration. My English master once said I had the brain of a butterfly. I feel that 40 years later, I’ve evolved into Dory from Finding Nemo.
Procrastination.
Fear, anxiety and panic attacks.
I am not studious enough. I get easily distracted.
I am crucified by my modesty: it’s terrible.
Shyness. It really held me back when I was younger, and I wish it hadn’t. I do a better job of not being so shy these days.
Being judgmental.
Impatience. Though sometimes it helps!
Being hard on myself. I don’t want to pass that on to my daughters, so I’m trying to stop.
Procrastination.
If hoarding and procrastination were Olympic sports, I’d have at least 70 gold medals.
My problem with clothes. I’ve got an issue, haven’t I? I’m not a fella in a band who can turn up in his T-shirt and jeans. I’ve got the whole drama of what I’m going to wear: the hair, the makeup. All that preening and pruning that adds to the stress. I have begun to hate that perfectionist in me.
Believing in, even admiring, people who refuse to believe in me, and not believing people who do.
Procrastination.
I try too hard not to get things wrong.
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