Identity & self

Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?

243 answers answered between 1995 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.

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Ed Harris American actor and director
Asking my wife questions that don't need to be asked.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 August 2007 source ↗
Barack Obama 44th President of the United States, 2009–2017; United States Senator from Illinois 2005–2008
Sometimes I wrote off my own failings as just another example of the world trying to keep a black man down. I had a tendency sometimes to make excuses for me not doing the right thing.
Recorded Morehouse College, Atlanta, Georgia, The White House (Obama administration archive), 19 May 2013 source ↗
My distractibility, diminishing memory, and capacity for sustained concentration. My English master once said I had the brain of a butterfly. I feel that 40 years later, I’ve evolved into Dory from Finding Nemo.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, April 2020 source ↗
Tim Peake British Army Air Corps officer and astronaut
Shyness. It really held me back when I was younger, and I wish it hadn’t. I do a better job of not being so shy these days.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 October 2022 source ↗
Fay Ripley English actress, television presenter, cookbook author
Being judgmental.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 November 2022 source ↗
Sofia Coppola American filmmaker and actress
Being hard on myself. I don’t want to pass that on to my daughters, so I’m trying to stop.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 March 2023 source ↗
Audra McDonald Singer and actor
If hoarding and procrastination were Olympic sports, I’d have at least 70 gold medals.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, August 2023 source ↗
My problem with clothes. I’ve got an issue, haven’t I? I’m not a fella in a band who can turn up in his T-shirt and jeans. I’ve got the whole drama of what I’m going to wear: the hair, the makeup. All that preening and pruning that adds to the stress. I have begun to hate that perfectionist in me.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 September 2023 source ↗
Believing in, even admiring, people who refuse to believe in me, and not believing people who do.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 October 2023 source ↗

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