Identity & self

Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?

256 answers answered between 1995 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.

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Al Franken Senator and comedian
I had to ask people about this, because I couldn’t think of anything, and the consensus seems to be: a general lack of self-awareness.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, May 2017 source ↗
Vic, my wife, has over the years reduced my impatience, but anybody who has been in a traffic jam with me will know that she hasn’t completed the task yet.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 August 2023 source ↗
I very often set my heart on things – and if they don’t happen, I’m not great at dealing with disappointment.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 April 2024 source ↗

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