Ronald Harwood
South African playwright and novelist
Basking in the sun.
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How would you describe what love feels like to you?
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Ian McEwan
British novelist and screenwriter
Exhilarating. I’ve been extremely lucky in that the person I love, Annalena, happens to be my wife.
Julie Andrews
English actress, singer and author
As you go through life, you discover so many forms of love – passionate, compassionate, familial, friendship. Love is hard to describe but it’s wonderful.
Björn Ulvaeus
Swedish musician
It’s a calm and secure feeling of deep loyalty.
David Jason
English actor
Warmth and security.
Roger Taylor
English musician, songwriter, and record producer
It comes in flashes, so it feels fleeting.
Rose Tremain
English writer
Like coming home.
Jacqueline Wilson
English novelist
Realising that if they were drowning, you’d try to save them.
Julian Lloyd Webber
British cellist and conductor
Frightening, exhilarating and all-consuming.
Like intoxication, sometimes followed by a hangover.
Marina Abramović
Performance artist
Eternal happiness.
Charles Dance
British actor
Comforting, uplifting, all consuming.
Warm, sugary, fierce, protective.
An umbilical cord.
It is all there is.
Like you’ve got hot-water bottles all over you.
Overwhelming, discombobulating, irrational and unreasonable.
Like you’ve got no other thought in your head.
Warmth and confidence.
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