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What is the biggest obstacle you have faced professionally?

Originally asked

The American Academy of Achievement, to its honourees, its oral-history interviews

The Academy of Achievement repeatedly asks honorees to identify a major professional obstacle or challenge and describe confronting it.

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John Clauser

Experimental physicist; Nobel laureate in Physics, 2022

The hard part was getting around this, this was a religion among physicists, and in fact even in the Bohr-Einstein debates, and with Schrödinger also, the universal religion was quantum…

Recorded · Nobel Prize Outreach · 2022

Kiran Mazumdar-Shaw

Founder and executive chairperson of Biocon

I faced a number of credibility hurdles linked to gender, youth and the nature of my business venture.

Recorded · MyIndMakers · 2016

Hilary Swank

Actor

I realized that the biggest obstacle was my mind. It was the biggest obstacle, and if I could get out of the way of myself, I would grow.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2006

David Lynch

Film director, screenwriter and painter

The studios are superreluctant to give final cut. They have so much money riding on these things, so they want a committee to go and rule the roost.

Recorded · Interview Magazine · 2012

Jocelyn Bell Burnell

Radio astronomer; discoverer of pulsars

Tony was cautious. He suspected I’d wired the radio telescope up wrong. So we checked on another radio telescope on the site.

Recorded · University of Cambridge · 2020

Ephraim Asili

Filmmaker, Educator, and DJ

I tried to get funding to shoot this film and couldn’t—nobody wanted to touch it, you know?

Recorded · Filmmaker Magazine · 2021

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What most recently made you cry?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

A fixed Guardian Q&A prompt asked directly across respondents and years.

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Andy Murray

British professional tennis player, 2005–2024

Driving home on my own, thinking about the last 18 months, which have been really difficult, and getting back to playing tennis again without any pain in my hip. It was happy crying.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2019

David Baddiel

Comedian and writer

I cry a lot. Especially on planes. What is that about? On a plane, I’ll be in floods at The Good Dinosaur.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2016

Orlando Bloom

English actor

I lost my poodle, Mighty. He was out of my sight for just seven minutes; he went out on an adventure and didn’t come back, and was taken by a coyote, I think.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2021

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Which moment embarrassed you most?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

A verbatim recurring question in The Guardian's Q&A series.

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Lucy Beaumont
I worked with Stephen Fry recently and we had a real heart-to-heart. I asked: “What was it like being in prison for being gay?” And thank God someone came in and he didn’t hear me say it.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2024

Nikki Amuka-Bird
Being an actor is inherently embarrassing. You have to embrace it.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2025

Chiwetel Ejiofor

English actor

Being torn to shreds by a very elderly woman for driving badly on the Isle of Man, maybe 15 years ago. She stopped in the middle of the road and really let me have it.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2024

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Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

A fixed Guardian Q&A prompt asked directly across respondents and years.

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Guz Khan
To my cousin P, who was one of my best mates growing up. We lost him when we were in our 20s and, before he passed away, I was so busy with this stupid thing called life and a brand new kid.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2025

Charlie Higson
All the kids I didn’t reply to who’ve written lovely letters about my books.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2025

Julian Clary

English actor, comedian, novelist and presenter

I’ve made some terrible remarks about people over the years in the interests of light entertainment, and I regret them all.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2022

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