What is the trait you most deplore in others?

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When they don’t tell the truth.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 August 2026 source ↗

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Anne Enright Novelist and short-story writer
I find it really interesting the way people are drawn to power, usually male power, sometimes in its dark mode. I wonder what they get from it. My experience of bastards is that there is very little material benefit gained from being in their company, though you feel there might be, any minute. Or you get something for a while and then the polarity switches. It’s a huge con. Trump made the mechanism clear – in this, I think he is a timely figure.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 September 2024 source ↗
Vick Hope British television and radio presenter
I don’t like it when people manipulate your words, which sometimes happens in the tabloids.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 August 2022 source ↗

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