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If you could revise one chapter of your past, what would you change?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

Repeated verbatim in The Guardian's long-running Saturday Q&A; two publisher-hosted examples establish recurrence.

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Philip Gould Political strategist and pollster; architect of New Labour
When I thought maybe I've just got a few weeks, I thought God this is what they mean by the reckoning. I've got to sort all this stuff out in days. Is it possible to sort out all those things in your past that you'd prefer not to have done? ... But actually by going through the process we've gone through, I think we have. And it's a real blessing to have this time do that.
Recorded Simon Hattenstone, The Guardian, interview at Gould's home in London, 20 September 2011 source ↗
I would build relationships. I would remember people’s significant moments. I would not fear closeness.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 October 2023 source ↗
I would find a much better way of looking after my mum in her last three years of dementia. I did my best, but it was incredibly difficult to find the right kind of care unless you’ve got £3,000 a week to spend.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 May 2026 source ↗
Julian Clary English actor, comedian, novelist and presenter
My education. Benedictine monks didn’t really prepare me for the life I have lived.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 June 2022 source ↗

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