The children. As a mother you are constantly worrying whether you’ve done the right thing.
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The children. As a mother you are constantly worrying whether you’ve done the right thing.
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Andre, the kids, my foundation and sometimes the dogs.
Everything: I worry about whether the window frames need replacing, did I answer that email, how long my face is going to hold up, world peace, poverty…
A really bad habit of eating sweets before I go to sleep.
When I feel that I am unprepared. Before a show I always have nightmares that I go out on stage naked.
In a different sense, I’ve helped to try to resuscitate a dead man.
It was reading out loud, but no longer. (I am dyslexic.) I was encouraged by my husband to do a speech for the Royal National Institute of Blind People, which helped me gain my confidence, and the fear disappeared.
I’m a bit of a hoarder.
Clearing up someone’s sick – it was on police duty.
An English teacher said, “You’ll never make anything of yourself.”
I would be less naive.
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