My father, with whom I had a complex relationship: often, when I was young, his desire to protect me clashed with the stubbornness of my choices.
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My father, with whom I had a complex relationship: often, when I was young, his desire to protect me clashed with the stubbornness of my choices.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 November 2024 source ↗
The person who had to empty the bin on that train to Oxford.
When I was 17 I didn’t visit my gran for six weeks as I was out partying. At the end of that summer she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I never saw the real her again. I would love to say sorry to her as I loved her so much.
I’ve made some terrible remarks about people over the years in the interests of light entertainment, and I regret them all.
To strangers. Living in New York, I see individuals every day who are invisible to so many. I want to say sorry that so many of us think their pain and suffering is not our own.
The many nuns and priests who often work in the shadows, dedicating their lives to the service of others.
I fear the arrogance we are all at risk of, the pride that pushes us to put “I” in place of “God”. More prosaically, I fear physical pain because it risks stripping us of our dignity.
Lack of humility, the absence of goodness.
When each of my three children was born.
A singer. I wanted to live off music ever since I was a child – a wish that came true when I was over 35 years old.
Earthly life is merely the infancy of our soul. What comes after physical death is, I imagine, like returning home.
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