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What is the most important lesson life has taught you?Originally asked
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Clive James
Critic, essayist, poet and broadcaster
I think I actually wrote it in one of my poems is that my decline has been the making of me - I forget how I put it. Yeah, simply more reflective. I haven't got the excuse of moving forward just on impulse anymore, which I did, I think, for a long, long time.
Stress is bad for your health.
Pete Rozelle
Commissioner of the National Football League, 1960–1989
It was a very simple thing. It was a church camp, I think. I was there about two or three days, very young, and I just remember some counselor telling us that reputation is what people think you are, and your character is what you are. So if you have a bad reputation, you might as well have a bad character, and it pays to have a good reputation and a good character.
Jason Manford
English comedian and singer
That there are more important things than being right.
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Not understanding myself until I was in my 30s.
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