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Not understanding myself until I was in my 30s.
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Angela Eagle
British politician
Being phoned by the prime minister and sacked from my role as a home office minister in front of 100 people I was about to speak to. But to be fair to Tony, he did appoint me in the first place.
That money doesn’t buy happiness.
Trusting someone and being let down.
Martin Freeman
English actor
“I don’t love you.”
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