When I left Radio 1: full snotty sobbing on air.
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View all 193 →When I think of my mother. After my father left, she became an alcoholic and wallowed in resentment.
At the election of Joe Biden, thinking we were out of the woods. Wrong.
I often cry when people do things well, like on Britain’s Got Talent; I cried at the old ladies doing finger knitting.
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Greed, lack of empathy. Same thing.
Sacrifice the self and you will gain it. Serve the self and you will lose it.
To kids I bullied in school. I have apologised and I will continue to. To repay those things karmically, I will watch my kids’ hearts like a hawk for signs of hardening or any distortions of empathy that they might develop.
I’m not thrilled with my lack of commitment to feminism in my 20s.
Human, evolving and faithful.
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