Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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My first girlfriend when I left drama school. I was a bit of tart.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 November 2019 source ↗

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Paul Merson English footballer and pundit
Walsall fans. I wanted to be a good manager but I was really bad with drink and gambling at the time. I should have done better.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 January 2023 source ↗
My children, because I spent the majority of their youth away from them as I’m the breadwinner and I had to pay the bills.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 January 2024 source ↗
Myself. I didn’t know how to protect myself adequately when I was younger, and I think I would have experienced my youth differently if I had.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 June 2025 source ↗
To a resistant materials teacher at secondary school called Mr Noel. He had a comb-over and whenever he turned his back to write on the blackboard, we would roll up bits of paper and launch them at his head. Once, I hit him. I remember him turning around and looking crestfallen.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 October 2025 source ↗

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