DH
I would have had a bit more belief in myself: I would have reached for America sooner.
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If you could revise one chapter of your past, what would you change?Originally asked
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I am who I am because of that messed-up childhood.
I would build relationships. I would remember people’s significant moments. I would not fear closeness.
Nothing at all.
Jonathan Rhys Meyers
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The public mistakes I’ve made. Most recently, I tried to light an e-cigarette on an aeroplane and was told to put it out. I completely forgot I was on a plane. I’d had, like, three drinks, but it only takes three. I stopped as soon as I got off and I got straight back into my programme, because that’s what I do.
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I was a bailiff for half a morning. I couldn’t stand it.
My first girlfriend when I left drama school. I was a bit of tart.
I’ve helped create a path for young black actors. When I go to swanky Hollywood dos, it’s great to see more and more young black British faces. I can remember a time when I was the only one there.
After my documentary aired. I suddenly had a bit of panic, because it’s very personal. I couldn’t watch it on the night, I was so scared. The next day people were walking up to me on the street and telling me their life story. It was extraordinary.
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