I would definitely change the way one or two relationships ended.
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I would try to work on being able to trust people more easily.
I would have behaved better to my first wife, and the girl I lived with afterwards. I was always away.
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Insanity. I am on a recovery programme – clean from drugs and drink for many years – and if I stopped doing all that stuff I’d go crazy pretty quick and pick up drugs again, because I was a real fucking addict.
On stage – the Old Vic in 1981 and Glastonbury last year.
The contentment I have now.
I worked in the stores of Edgware hospital when I was about 17, and it was grey and depressing.
My brother Pete passing on in 2005.
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