Dying when my children are still young. I know how much it hurt me. I was 30 when my mum died and 39 when my dad died, and even then, that was too young.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 January 2025 source ↗
The question
What do you fear most?Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
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Dying when my children are still young. I know how much it hurt me. I was 30 when my mum died and 39 when my dad died, and even then, that was too young.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 January 2025 source ↗
Getting to the end and thinking that I haven’t laughed enough.
Safety of loved ones.
Fear is for frightened people. I’m not one of those.
A Broadway theater filled with nothing but critics.
The Mona Lisa – I preferred the frame.
I am a massive people-pleaser and it brings me nothing but trouble.
Now. Five years ago, I started looking after myself a bit more, emotionally and spiritually, and it’s paid dividends.
I’ve pooed myself a couple of times.
As a nice human being who gave a shit.
I like you but I wish you looked more like David Beckham.
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