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Cruelty, and also general rudeness and unkindness. I’ve always told my children: Don’t ever find entertainment in someone else’s discomfort.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, May 2024 source ↗
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View all 197 →Superiority. I shrink when I’m around people who act superior, whether it’s due to authority or intellect. I almost become mute.
Careless cruelty.
Enough with the constant smiling.
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Kindness and laughter. If someone makes me laugh, I’m halfway in love.
My kids are in the house. I’ve been gardening in my vegetable garden. I have absolutely zero obligations or calls to return. Now I’m fixing dinner with music playing and having a glass of wine.
When I’m feeling lazy and I sleep in too much.
My wedding day, and when my children were first placed in my arms.
Jane Goodall. I got the chance to meet her a few years ago, and it was the thrill of a lifetime. When I was little, I wanted to be her. I thought she had the coolest life in the world.
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