Never be rigid in your thinking, be open.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 July 2023 source ↗
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Never be rigid in your thinking, be open.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 July 2023 source ↗
To keep trying to listen to yourself.
You are good enough.
Know the things you are responsible for and the things you aren’t.
It occurred to me that at one point it was like I had two diseases – one was Alzheimer's and the other was knowing I had Alzheimer's. There were times when I thought I'd have been much happier not knowing, just accepting that I'd lost brain cells and one day they'd probably grow back or whatever. It is better to know, though, and better for it to be known, because it has got people talking, which I rather think was what I had in mind.
Eight or nine years ago, I disgraced myself in the Japanese ambassador’s home in Dublin, at a celebration for my late mother-in-law’s book about living in Japan. Afterwards, when I had to apologise, she told me it was the worst night of her life and, because I was drunk enough not to remember the details, it will never not be the most embarrassing night of my life. People are filling in details even now – “Remember when you fell under the table during the first course?”
Walking along Oxford Street on Saturday pulling a shopping trolley that my mother bought me. I remember saying, “I’m never going to use that!” and there I was, very grateful to have it in my life. She died before Christmas and I can’t ring her to tell her that she was right.
Actors live in a constant state of disappointment. I’ll never be happy with what I’ve done.
I hope the happiest moment is still ahead of me.
Not being able to breathe – I get very panicky at the thought.
I talk over people all the time.
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