That we are all no more and no less than a single thread in a gigantic web of life. What we do and how we behave has repercussions for the entire web.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
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View all 141 →That you get out of life what you put in. When you grow up on a farm you literally reap what you sow.
To know thyself, as Shakespeare said.
Sacrifice the self and you will gain it. Serve the self and you will lose it.
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A missionary in Africa – I think that was Sunday school-based.
“You’ll never, ever work.” When you are young and full of hopes and dreams it’s devastating. I am just grateful that I thought: “Well, I’m going to try.”
Very impatient, bossy, always late.
Years ago, I was trying to get with one of the big agencies and I cobbled together a VHS tape of me in adverts and sobbing in The Bill, and took it United Agents for the attention of Dallas Smith. A week later I went back and said, “Has she looked at the tape?” And they were, like, “Dallas is a he, no he hasn’t and he doesn’t want to,” and handed it back to me.
Laziness, lack of empathy, lack of humour.
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