Just look at a Dalai Lama and Mother Teresa and Aung San Suu Kyi and Nelson Mandela, and you’ll see that one of the outstanding characteristics of each one of these is how they have poured themselves out prodigally on behalf of others, of their being so utterly selfless.
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David Hare – he’s always fascinating and funny.
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A missionary in Africa – I think that was Sunday school-based.
A glow of wellbeing.
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