What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

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Recorded Clive James said elsewhere, not written here
I think I actually wrote it in one of my poems is that my decline has been the making of me - I forget how I put it. Yeah, simply more reflective. I haven't got the excuse of moving forward just on impulse anymore, which I did, I think, for a long, long time.

Philip Williams, 7.30, ABC, ABC News, 20 August 2015 source ↗

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That you get out of life what you put in. When you grow up on a farm you literally reap what you sow.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗

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Question What would you like to be remembered for? Death & what remains
It’s here. I’ve always thought that it was here. If you play to the gallery, that’s posterity. The best you can hope for is another gallery after you’ve gone, but you won’t see it. Statistically, it’s unlikely that much of what one does will be read for ever. It may just be one or two poems. For example, my Japanese Maple poem is famous among people who own a Japanese maple.
Recorded Robert McCrum, The Observer, 15 March 2015 source ↗
Question Has knowing that you will die changed how you live? Death & what remains
Yeah. These books are all around me and they'll be here when I go and I'm that sick. I just don't know when it ends. But in 2010, I got really ill and leukaemia was one of the things I was diagnosed with and eventually it will switch me off. So it raises the question: what do you do? Do you lie down and give up? Read the Bible? Or do you go on as you were reading and writing. And I've done the second and I've just done a little bit called Latest Readings which is about the books I've been reading lately and I could do another volume of that because I'm still reading.
Recorded Philip Williams, 7.30, ABC, ABC News, 20 August 2015 source ↗
Question What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it? Failure & regret
One thing, it's too big a subject and I want to talk about it on paper if I talk about it at all. But I can say this much, because I thought the life that my father and mother would have had together was cut short and something of what they might have achieved I hope that I'm achieving in my work.
Recorded Philip Williams, 7.30, ABC, ABC News, 20 August 2015 source ↗

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