Outside my very close-knit group of friends, socially I’m terrible.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?Originally asked
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Outside my very close-knit group of friends, socially I’m terrible.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗
My complete lack of organisation that affects all part of my life – my living space, my being in touch with people, everything. I am a walking shitshow.
Procrastination.
Having no patience.
Flashes of hubris.
“What is Seann Walsh and how do we make it die?” It was online, thankfully. It wasn’t in Sainsbury’s.
Finding your phone.
A house in west London.
A comedian or the guy who drives the little truck around airports that takes old ladies to their gate.
I did say sorry to my mum, for being the way I was when I was a teenager. You become a parent and go, “Oh my God, this is what they were doing.”
I got sacked from TK Maxx for falling asleep under the coats.
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