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“I’ll tell you later.” They never do.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 August 2024 source ↗
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What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you?Originally asked
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View all 122 →The music journalist Paul Morley described me as bland.
“You’ll never, ever work.” When you are young and full of hopes and dreams it’s devastating. I am just grateful that I thought: “Well, I’m going to try.”
I’ve heard it all: too fat, too short, no talent. Those are the things that cut me deep when I was younger, but now they drive me.
I’m not interested.
More from Rose Ayling-Ellis
View profile →Rapping the Humpty Dumpty nursery rhyme on national television.
My dad’s family, for fake drowning when I was 12 on holiday in France – it caused such embarrassment that we had to leave. All because I wanted to get the inflatable ring off my brother. It still haunts me. I guess acting was always going to be my future.
You have to ride the wave and never wait for it to be calm, because it never will be.
If emergency train announcements were written up on the information screen. The times I ended up at the wrong destination could easily have been avoided.
Avoidance coping.
That my work has given deaf children more confidence in themselves and a sense of ownership of who they are.
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