Rebecca Lucy Taylor: What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you? — FLAPSS

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What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you?

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Rebecca Lucy Taylor

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I was recently made to feel that it’s my mental health that’s the problem and not the system.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

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I like you but I wish you looked more like David Beckham.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 January 2025 source ↗

I love you but I hate your lifestyle.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 November 2025 source ↗

On X, I am regularly called a traitor, a fraud, a grifter, a weakling, a narcissist, a coward and a child molester.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 January 2026 source ↗

“You’ll never, ever work.” When you are young and full of hopes and dreams it’s devastating. I am just grateful that I thought: “Well, I’m going to try.”

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 December 2025 source ↗

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Question Which book do you still mean to read, and why has it stayed on your list? Taste & recommendation

I never finished The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

Question How would you want people to remember you? Death & what remains

I’d like all my effort noticed.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

Question What would you most want to leave your children? Death & what remains

High self-esteem.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

Question If you could revise one chapter of your past, what would you change? Failure & regret

I’d have gone solo sooner.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

Question What period or moment in your life brought you the most joy? Time & hindsight

Five to 10, when I was just playing out and I didn’t realise I was a girl. Before my boobs came in, basically.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

Question What disappointment has stayed with you longest? Failure & regret

I am consistently disappointed in the music industry. Every time someone says that I’m underrated, that feels extremely disappointing because I’ve done my end of the bargain.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

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