My father, with whom I had a complex relationship: often, when I was young, his desire to protect me clashed with the stubbornness of my choices.
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Frank Adamson, my first coach, for not spending more time with him in his later years. I feel bad about that.
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View all 209 →So many. I have been very cowardly in the past, and it came across as me not caring, when the opposite was true.
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My kids, for not being around much.
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To strangers. Living in New York, I see individuals every day who are invisible to so many. I want to say sorry that so many of us think their pain and suffering is not our own.
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View profile →It makes you feel like you want to live.What is the worst job you’ve ever done? Doing the audiobook of the first book. It was hard. I couldn’t do that again.
That they think they know it all.
Perspective. I used to zoom in and it would be all catastrophic, now I zoom out and get a bit of perspective.
I would go back to when I was 14 and keep to my own style of playing snooker. I was perfect, but I didn’t think I was, so I started playing like everybody else and created bad habits. With a little more time, I could have been the ultimate player. I look at my career and I probably got 75% out of it instead of 100%.
I’ve got no patience.
As someone that loved what they did, embraced it wholeheartedly and never quit.
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