My girlfriend. I am away a lot and, as much as she understands, I’d like to say sorry for not being there.
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View all 209 →My wife, because she manages me and sometimes there isn’t time for niceties and we have to talk in a language that isn’t very marriage-like.
To the people who, because of my career, I cannot spend time with. I have to be selfish, unfortunately.
To my kids, for my shortcomings.
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As not having been tiresome.
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