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Originally asked
Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions
A recurring legacy prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, appearing with only minor wording changes.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Isn’t it enough just to be remembered?
The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 February 2026 source ↗
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View all 214 →He knew where life was to be found.
As a nice human being who gave a shit.
Sofia Helin
Swedish actress
My vain side would like to be remembered as someone who did good for others in some way. But I would be happy if my children remembered me.
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View profile →To my father, who was aggressively indifferent to what I was doing. He did say sorry to me when he was dying and I don’t think I was very gracious.
Edward Bond, the playwright, said I was like a turd flowing on the effluent of British culture.
The rest is silence.
Curious, energetic, droll.
In despair, because of my wife’s illness.
Warmth and confidence.
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