To my father, who was aggressively indifferent to what I was doing. He did say sorry to me when he was dying and I don’t think I was very gracious.
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To my father, who was aggressively indifferent to what I was doing. He did say sorry to me when he was dying and I don’t think I was very gracious.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 February 2026 source ↗
To myself. I am my harshest critic.
My wife. I made mistakes in my early life and hurt her. Everybody thinks the grass is greener, but it’s not. To say sorry to her when she understands will be one of the greatest gifts God has given me.
My mum. I was horrendous growing up – I was always arguing with her.
I am too ashamed to answer.
In despair, because of my wife’s illness.
The rest is silence.
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