Not having come from a class that understands how the world works.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 August 2022 source ↗
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Maya Jama
British television and radio presenter
Probably missing out on roles I really, really wanted, but I’m a big believer that if it’s for you, you’ll have it. So those clearly weren’t for me.
Not being a professional footballer.
Russell Howard
British comedian and presenter
Seeing Bob Dylan live.
Robert Peston
British journalist
I am rarely disappointed. I try to make the best of things.
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Being a bit mean now and again, too impetuous, snappy, bit of a temper.
If I was 40 again.
Needless aggression and bullying.
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