Bertie Carvel
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I held my mother’s hand as she passed away.
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Ten years ago, I went to visit my dad in Australia. I walked to the edge of a cliff and looked over and tripped. I righted myself but my head was over the edge. No one saw it.
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Terry O'Neill
British photographer
I was invited to Sharon Tate’s house the night she was murdered. I declined the invite due to jetlag.
I lived in New York during 9/11 and worked a couple of blocks away from the twin towers. I was looking when the first tower exploded and then when the second plane flew in and, before we had to evacuate, I did see people jump to their death.
Getting into a tense argument with Russell Crowe during one of the Vanity Fair Oscar parties.
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To be looked at.
I didn’t learn to be intimate with people until I was in my 20s, so I was a very bad friend in my teens. There was a girl I was best friends with at college; I always used to kiss the boys she liked. I’d like to apologise to her.
My A-level results - I got two Cs and an A. I had applied to do philosophy at Cambridge, and thought my life was over.
Nothing – I don’t like music. I want my funeral to be uncomfortably quiet.
I would be a bit nicer to myself.
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