Failure & regret

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a favourite failure?

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John Updike Novelist, poet and critic; twice winner of the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction
I was prepared to fail. I was prepared to not be able to get things accepted, because I saw that happen to my mother.
Recorded Academy of Achievement, Academy of Achievement interview, Beverly Farms, Massachusetts, 1 June 1999 source ↗
Francis Ford Coppola Film director, producer and screenwriter; director of The Godfather and Apocalypse Now
The Godfather was a very unappreciated movie when we were making it. They were very unhappy with it. They didn't like the cast. They didn't like the way I was shooting it. I was always on the verge of getting fired. So it was an extremely nightmarish experience. I had two little kids, and the third one was born during that. We lived in a little apartment, and I was basically frightened that they didn't like it. They had as much as said that, so when it was all over I wasn't at all confident that it was going to be successful, and that I'd ever get another job.
Recorded Academy of Achievement, Academy of Achievement interview, 1 June 1999 source ↗
Nora Ephron Journalist, essayist, screenwriter and film director
I wish I had learned more from failure than just mortification. I don’t think you learn much from success, and I don’t think you learn much from failure, unfortunately. It’s one of the sad things. You certainly learn that it’s more fun to have a hit than a flop.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, 21 June 2007 source ↗
Paula Scher Graphic designer
When you’re working and you make mistakes, particularly when you’re young, you make discoveries because you do things that are inappropriate and wrongheaded, but within the wrongheadedness you find an unexpected way to go. These things are truly the breakthroughs.
Recorded Debbie Millman, Psychology Today, 'Brainstorm' column, 1 May 2009 source ↗

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