When you can barely stand to look at someone without turning away to catch your breath.
How would you describe what love feels like to you?
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Euphoric and very calming.
Pulling yourself out of a wild ocean and on to a life raft.
Like hunger, which feels like anxiousness, which feels like fear, which feels like excitement.
Strength, comfort, joy and passion.
It feels like a yearning but also a kind of overwhelming glowing out.
The easiest thing for me to say would be comfort and at ease.
A warm, frayed, soft blanket.
There are types: there is the world-being-comfortable type of love and there’s the lust-and-passion type of love – I think I like that one better.
Being completely still.
Safe and peaceful. It gives you a sense of ease.
Joy and frustration.
I think I’ve only really experienced it on a parental level, and it feels like the rhythm of nature.
A warm knowing.
It feels like home.
Like someone is hitting your heart with a cricket bat.
Warm and golden, and it smells delicious.
A chihuahua giving you a cuddle.
I’m trying to figure out how to receive unconditional love. That’s hard to do when you’ve never really had it, so I’m trying to navigate that.
A blurred, warm state of total acceptance and joy.
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