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What does love feel like?
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Friendly and warm.
Like coming home in every sense.
Like having a foundation.
In some way your life is doubled. You’re you and the other person.
Adolescent love feels like exquisite self-indulgence. Long-term love feels like a warm bath that needs a trickle of extra hot water every now and then.
Very warm and slightly giddying
Like driving a Ford Mustang with the top down across the Golden Gate Bridge while the sun is setting and you have a dinner reservation in Sausalito.
Comforting, solid, unconditional, a drug.
Love is a religious experience, which then requires me to define religion, which I define as everything I don’t understand.
Heady, dizzying, magical. Time stops.
Being exquisitely alive.
Unqualified. Also, there’s that strange moment when you’re listening to lyrics on Radio 2 and you think, “Ooh, that’s so deep”.
It’s like all your emotions are apples and they get crushed all at once into cider.
Kindness, security, being at home.
It’s like digging a field together: it’s hard work, not very glamorous, but you can stand back and think, “We did that.”
A deep awareness of all things beautiful and painful.
Real love feels like freedom.
A longed-for, familiar shore at sunset.
It feels like all is possible.
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