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What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you?

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Michael Ball

English singer, presenter and actor

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“Unfortunately, Michael, I don’t think you’re ever going to work in the acting profession until you’re about 40, and then it’ll only be in minor character roles.” Drama teacher at Guildford School of Acting.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 May 2023 source ↗

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Edward Bond, the playwright, said I was like a turd flowing on the effluent of British culture.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 February 2026 source ↗
“You’re getting old.” My son Harris was factually correct, but I didn’t need to hear it.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 November 2024 source ↗
Chaka Khan American singer
A friend said, “If you remembered everything you did, you’d kill yourself.” He’s sort of crazy, but he’s probably right.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 May 2024 source ↗
When I was a child, a member of staff at Wood End Assessment Centre [a former children’s home in Wigan] bellowed: “He copies them poems off of Bob Marley records.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 October 2023 source ↗

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