What has been your biggest disappointment?

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Recorded George H. W. Bush said elsewhere, not written here
When I lost a race for the United States Senate, I thought the world was going to end for me politically, and 18 years later I was elected President of the United States. The biggest disappointment was that I wasn't able to communicate properly to the American people — with the proper conviction and the proper ability — where the country really stood. The pessimists, the naysayers, the change-wanters overwhelmed me, and I wasn't good enough. I wasn't articulate enough to have the country understand that we weren't in a recession, that we were in a rather booming economy in the last half of my presidency. That was a personal shortcoming, a failure on my path.

Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗

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This may sound like a cliché, but I’ll put it this way. The proudest thing in my life is that my children came home. The proudest moment of my presidency, domestically, was when I signed a piece of civil rights legislation known as the ADA, doing something for the disabled. A massive piece of civil rights legislation that put disabled people, 50 million of them, into the mainstream, or at least removed legal obstacles to their being in the mainstream.
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Question What scares you about getting older? Time & hindsight
I don't want to be called a senior citizen, I feel like a spring colt. I don't want to be called a has-been, because there's things I want to do in life. But, I've been there and I'd say, "Don't let the bastards get you down." And they don't anymore, I don't talk to them anymore, so they don't get me down. I've got my family, and I've got so many blessings that I don't think I've earned, that I'm a very happy man.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
Question Which trait do you most dislike in yourself? Identity & self
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Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
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Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗

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