Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Aidan Gillen said elsewhere, not written here
Teachers at my school, for being such a smartarse.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 May 2017 source ↗

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My late wife – she died of cancer. We tried everything we could do to save her. I wish that I could have done more and that I could have been with her at the moment she passed away. I couldn’t be in that room, because I knew it would be so devastating that I wouldn’t be able to take care of the kids after.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 January 2016 source ↗
Martin Sheen American actor
My son Ramón was the victim of my wrath at a particular time that still withers me with disgrace.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 March 2017 source ↗
To my mother for disappointing her. Mummy wanted me to be a different sort of person from who I am, but one can’t change oneself.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 July 2025 source ↗
David Gandy British model
I pulled a chair away from a girl who was just about to sit down on our second day of primary school. She farted when she hit the floor and everyone laughed.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 April 2020 source ↗

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