To not be afraid, to stand there and be strong and loving and honest.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 May 2024 source ↗
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To not be afraid, to stand there and be strong and loving and honest.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 May 2024 source ↗
You are your own greatest asset.
That materialistic things will not make you happy.
Before I was diagnosed with esophageal cancer a year and a half ago, I rather jauntily told the readers of my memoirs that when faced with extinction I wanted to be fully conscious and awake, in order to “do” death in the active and not the passive sense. And I do, still, try to nurture that little flame of curiosity and defiance: willing to play out the string to the end and wishing to be spared nothing that properly belongs to a life span. However, one thing that grave illness does is to make you examine familiar principles and seemingly reliable sayings. And there’s one that I find I am not saying with quite the same conviction as I once used to: In particular, I have slightly stopped issuing the announcement that “Whatever doesn’t kill me makes me stronger.”
Your lowest moment is temporary.
A friend said, “If you remembered everything you did, you’d kill yourself.” He’s sort of crazy, but he’s probably right.
Peace and honesty.
When Rufus first came out, it was all white guys and myself, but then the band changed and Tony Maiden, Bobby Watson and Andre Fischer came in. This guy booked us for a gig in Illinois, based on our original album cover, and when we got there he said that there were too many black people in the band. He actually put some white guys on the stage with us.
That I have no patience.
I am not afraid.
Staying alive, being here at this age. So many songs. It’s crazy.
Belinda Carlisle, Jo Nesbø, Richard Coles, John Simm, Warren Zevon, Shakin' Stevens
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