What do you value most in your friends?

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Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.

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Recorded Akio Toyoda said elsewhere, not written here
Having said that, feeling isolated is tough. In those times, you need a place where you can be by yourself, and friends. Company colleagues won’t do it because they’re generally self-centered (laughs). You need friends who have nothing to do with the company.

Toyota Group genba leader, Toyota Group genba-leader dialogue, Toyota Times, 29 February 2024 source ↗

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Edmund Hillary Mountaineer and explorer; first ascent of Everest, 1953
I personally wouldn’t be, if I could possibly help it, involved in a serious pursuit in which there weren’t a few people who could laugh a bit about it. Because I can remember many occasions — maybe we’ve been stuck in a tent or we’re up on the side of a mountain, this heavy snow, avalanches all around us, and we can’t get up and we can’t get down, but we just sat in the tent and reminisced about occasions and days gone by and laughed about old jokes and all the rest of it. Then you really have a very good time, even though you’re sort of poised there between disaster both up and down. People who can make you laugh under those circumstances are very valuable indeed in an expedition.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview source ↗
Terry Gross Radio interviewer
Their willingness to put up with my endless explanations about why I can’t see them because I’m under deadline.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 September 2012 source ↗
Megan Rapinoe United States international footballer, 2006–2023
Humor and honesty. And, like me, they always think the unnecessary last drink is a great idea.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 July 2020 source ↗

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